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The Truth About Bulimia Weight Loss

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Question :

What should I do about my girlfriend? I need help.?

My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year, and even from the beginning she was bulimic (I didn t know) and self harming. I gave her all the support I could, showed her the dangers of throwing up and tried to help her stop cutting herself. After a while she said she had stopped throwing up and i felt a lot happier, but when she REALLY stopped I found out she had still been doing it for a while after she told me. That means she lied to me and I lost my trust in her. I found trust in her every time she seemed to stop self harming, too, but after a week, a few weeks and even a month she would do it again and the trust would be broken. One time, she even hid it from me so she wouldn t feel guilty by cutting herself somewhere I couldn t see, and i felt betrayed and like I was a horrible girlfriend.
Over the course of our relationship she has always been worried about her weight (even though she is five foot seven and weighs 140lbs which is entirely normal and not at all fat, she especially does not look fat) and she counts calories and at the worst of times she starves herself. She tells me she wants to go on water fasts and when I try to convince her not to she shouts at me and tells me that I m always miserable and that I used to be fun but the reason i act so upset all the time is because Im worried that shes doing bad things like throwing up or cutting herself and that she ll die.
Last week she started not eating and I knew it was bad. She was going on a number of weight loss and pro-anorexia-bulimia sites like she used to, and I asked her if she was throwing up and she said know. I think this is the truth because a while ago she was sick (actually ill) and saw some of her stomach lining, which worried her so she stopped. But I dont even know if I can trust her with that because her throat hurts alot and I know that is a sign of purging.
On thursday I talked to her and she said i d made her feel alot better and that she would stop being so worried about weight. This made me feel much happier and I even texted my best friend to tell them I was feeling better. It was alright on friday too, and my girlfriend seemed to be eating normally.
Last night I learned that once again, she has been lying to me. Even though I made her feel better on thursday night she began to take laxatives to lose weight, both on thursday and on friday night. I know that this is an irrational method of weight loss as it is not only dangerous but laxatives purge the large intestine, AFTER the food has already been digested...which means no weight loss whasoever apart from water loss. Which is dangerous and also bloats the perso afterwards.
I assume she was hiding it from me, like usual, and the only reason I found out was because she text me and told me shed been to the toilet and shes been having abdominal/stomach pains, and that bowel movements have been painful and diahorrea like. Apparently last night the water in the toilet bowl was red after she d been and there were peices of redness just like her stomach lining when she threw up awhile ago.
I am very worried about her and I dont know what to do.
I cannot take her lies all of the time because I feel like a worthless girlfriend and I cant trust her, and what kind of relationship is based on lies? I dont want to leave her because I know she needs help but I dont kno if I can take another year of hoping things will get better when they never seem to. Or at least they seem to but then get worse because I learn the truth instead of lies.
I love my girlfriend very much, I adore her, and she is a very nice person but what should I do? She only gets angry when I try to help and when we went to her doctor together to recommend her to another doctor to talk about self harming it was alright but I know that she probably wont go to the doctor for her weight issues/bulimia because I dont think she can see there is something wrong.

I really need help with this because I ve thought about breaking up with her but I really dont want to, I do love her and she means alot to me, I just dont know what to do because ever time I try to talk to her things just get worse.
Thanks.
Answer :
Eating disorders are difficult to deal with even if you are a professional. Get your gf good help -- she really needs it right now. Don t just take her to a general practitioner.....take her to a specialist if you can find one. Also, definetely look for therapists or local support groups.

I can tell you re trying but darlin u are way in over your head with this. You ve got to know this isn t something you can tackle for her. This is your girlfriend s battle....all you can do is guide her. Good luck. God Bless.

P.S. Listen to the song "Courage" by Superchick. It may help you understand your gf better.
Question :

Anorexia or bulimia, or both?

Hi, I have an eating problem, where I eat as little as possible, I ve been like it over a year this time, and lost much weight, but still feel huge. I generally eat around 200-300 calories a day, over Xmas I had to eat more as we went out for meals, but I used laxatives to rid myself of any extra weight I might put on, I came off them a little while later, as they were making my epilepsy worse because of the dehydration. I have crohn s disease, so there are many foods I cannot tolerate, and for a little while lately I ve been extra hungry, but cannot deal with it and have deliberarely eaten foods I used to like but now cannot, eg things with pickles, custard, spicy foods, as I know my bowel will be upset enough to expel it pretty soon. My bowel is already messed up through my crohn s getting out of control two years ago, and I have a colostomy, so obviously would have no accidents or having to get to the loo quickly, am I anorexic or bulimic though? I know I should care about myself more, but I m suffering with depression also, and I saw my gp about my weight problems a while ago, my gastroenterologist was also concerned with my weight loss, and I was given a mental health assessment where an eating disorder person was also, I was told I didn t have an eating disorder, and yes I told the truth, but was told it was a coping strategy for my stress, which it is, but as I m an adult I wasn t taken seriously, apparently at my age (forties) I should be grown up enough to realise what I m doing to myself, I feel worthless and unhappy, and self harm also, I don t know where to turn any more, I cannot talk to my husband, he s unapproachable at the best of times. What to do please?
Answer :
Ok first of all sorry to hear of your prob and BIIGG HUUGGGGSSS!
Lets have a look and take this step by step.
1. Laxatives. you are wasting your time taking them! Why? because by the time your food has reached the poo stage, all the calorie and nutrition has been taken in by your body, and therefore, laxative is NOT preventing you from getting fat. All laxatives will do is make your bowel LAZY. AND you are risking your epilepsy.

Your calorie intake is far too low. Now, at this point you shouldnt be asking the question "am I anorexic or bulimic? you should be asking yourself "why do I eat so little?"

Honey, I am over 40 also. I UNDERSTAND what you are going through. Self confidence has a lot to do with it. You have kinda anwsered alrready in your question. You are low and unhappy - you probably have high expectations of yourself right? you feel alone? So the self harm gives you release.
Maybe you didnt want me to answer your question.. maybe you just wanted to know if someone would be there for you?
WELLLL I am and there are other who feel the same.. so PLEASE remember you are so special and you are worth the very best in life, YOU ARE NOT ALONE! XX

Finally try and open out a little to husband - if he really loves you he will try to understand xxxx

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